Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Saturday, December 14, 2024

Lessons from Ayrton Senna, Residente, and the Forgotten Joys of Life"

In a world increasingly obsessed with wealth, fame, and outward success, stories from individuals who have reached the pinnacle of their respective fields often reveal a surprising commonality: the most cherished moments of their lives are not tied to material accomplishments but to experiences of simplicity, authenticity, innocence, playfulness and connection. These reflections stand as a counter-narrative to the prevailing societal values, offering profound insights into other things that also matter in life.

Ayrton Senna: Racing for the Love of It

Ayrton Senna, widely regarded as one of the greatest Formula 1 drivers of all time, was a man who embodied passion and determination. His dominance on the track earned him immense fame, fortune, and adoration. Yet, when asked by the press about his favorite competitor, Senna did not name a rival from his illustrious career. Instead, he spoke of a fellow karting competitor from his early racing days in Brazil—before he became a professional, before he earned a single dollar. This comment was a tribute to the pure essence of those early days of karting: the love for speed, the challenge, and the camaraderie shared with others who raced not for glory but for the sheer joy of and passion for the sport.

Senna’s reflection underscores a profound truth: the moments of simplicity, when we engage in something for its intrinsic value rather than external rewards, often become the most meaningful. His story is a reminder to cherish the early, unpolished stages of any journey—moments that are too often overshadowed by the pursuit of success.

Residente: Returning to Roots

Residente, the Puerto Rican rapper and founder of the Grammy-winning group Calle 13, similarly reflects on the value of simplicity in various opportunities and in his song Adentro. In it, he expresses a longing to return to the days when he rapped without monetary compensation—when music was a raw, unfiltered expression of his identity and emotions. For Residente, those early days symbolized a time of freedom, anonymity and authenticity, untainted by the pressures of fame and commercial success.

His sentiment challenges the idea that creative work becomes more meaningful as it gains financial recognition. On the contrary, Residente’s words suggest that the most genuine and fulfilling moments often arise when creativity is free from the constraints of profit motives. This perspective invites us to rethink the ways we measure success, particularly in artistic endeavors, where passion and purpose should take precedence over profit.

An Argentine Celebrity’s daughter shares Fond Memories

An Argentine celebrity's daughter- whose name is not relevant- who lived in the limelight, provided another striking example during a radio interview. When asked about her best memories, she did not recount glamorous parties or red-carpet events. Instead, she spoke of a time when her parents had financial issues and she lived in a tent in Córdoba, Argentina. It was a period marked by simplicity, full moons, connection to nature, and a slower pace of life "the best moments are there" she said.

Her answer presents a different perspective and challenges societal assumptions about what constitutes a "good life." Her fondest memories came not from material abundance but from a time when she embraced minimalism and lived in harmony with family and the natural world. This choice to highlight a modest, even austere, moment as her happiest underscores the disconnect between societal values and individual fulfillment. 

The Cost of Modern Obsessions

These stories collectively shine a light on a troubling trend in contemporary society: the tendency to prioritize money, beauty, and fame at the expense of more enduring values such as friendship, love, nature, and simplicity. In our relentless pursuit of success, we often sacrifice the very things that make life meaningful. We trade time with loved ones for overtime at the office, swap spontaneous adventures for meticulously curated social media posts, and overlook the beauty of the ordinary in our quest for the extraordinary.

The irony, of course, is that the things we chase are often fleeting. Money comes and goes, beauty fades, and fame is ephemeral. Yet, the quiet moments of connection, the satisfaction of pursuing something we love, and the serenity of being present in nature—these are the experiences that leave a lasting imprint on our hearts.

Relearning How to Value the "Ordinary"

The reflections of Senna, Residente, and others offer a powerful reminder to reassess our priorities. They urge us to stop equating value only with financial gain or public recognition and to start appreciating the intrinsic worth of what may seem "ordinary" or "not enough." This is obviously not to romanticize struggle or reject ambition but to encourage a more balanced approach—one that allows space for joy, simplicity, and human connection.

As individuals, we can begin by carving out time to reconnect with the people and activities that bring us genuine happiness. On a broader level, societies can benefit from promoting values that prioritize well-being, community, and environmental stewardship over unbridled consumerism and competition.

A Final Thought

One day, the moments we take for granted today will no longer exist. The laughter of a friend, the stillness of a forest, the exhilaration of doing something purely for the love of it—these are treasures we must learn to see and appreciate now, not in hindsight. By doing so, we honor the lessons of those who have walked before us, from the racetracks of Senna’s youth to the unglamorous yet cherished tent in Córdoba. In their stories lies a timeless truth: the simplest joys are often the most profound.

Friday, May 11, 2012

alchemy


At some level, it's all about love and passion, nothing more or less.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Un- complicate































- F: Pleasure is never simple, as you very well know.
- J: It is, until we decide to complicate it.

Freud to Jung on the film A Dangerous Method.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Life is too short to...























* not fall in love deeply

* have a job that you don't love

* postpone getting a ticket to go to that place (or places) you've been dreaming of

* not tell people how you feel

* not be who you really are

* not dance and sing MORE

* not spend a quiet day with yourself

* not help make a difference

* not feel gratitude (for the small things also)

* not be a better sister, brother, daughter, son, mother, wife, husband, father, friend, grandfather, grandson, grandaughter...

* not tweet

* not be the best at whatever it is that you do

* not smile

* be too worried about consuming chocolate, coffee, wine

* not read more

* not do sports as often as you can

* not spend more time in contact with nature

* not hug

* not take risks

* not be more curious



Please tell us what other things "life is too short to..." miss. We'd love to know your thoughts on this. xx

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

The Tao






























We recently found a copy of the Tao Te Ching by Lao Tsu. Have you read it? if you haven't, we recommend it. The book was a gift from Michelle's father. In the dedication, he noted that, as a boy, he had the chance to be in a lecture by a famous physicist at the university. He was 16 then. Her father asked the physicist what book would he recommend if he could only choose one. To which the physicist replied: the Tao.

It is, in our opinion a difficult book to understand, at first. Perhaps, a good idea is to read it a couple of times. We value the teachings of the Tao because of how different they are to Western values. We were taught, for example, that when we feel that change is necessary, it can be achieved through effort and perseverance. Contrary to this thought and more aligned with the theory of Acceptance, the Tao, says that we should accept what is in front of us without wanting the situation to be other than it is.

We should study the natural order of things and work with it rather than against it, for to try and change what is, only sets up resistance. It teaches us that nature provides everything without requiring payment or thanks. The idea behind the Tao is to let yourself flow as freely as possible.

Whatever you're trying to accomplish, it will happen more naturally if you stop looking for results and value the "trip", walk that path.

If your mind is calm you will come to "understand" which means "to stand under". Te - which may be translated as "virtue" or "strength" lies always in Tao, or "natural law" in other words: Simply be.

To Westerners who may disagree, or are not willing to accept a different perspective, this may just be a "Chineese tale*"!

But, a good one to think about.



*Chineese tale is the translation for "Cuento Chino" an Argentinian Film with Buenos Aires- born actor, Ricardo Darín




Monday, March 5, 2012

Acceptance

































How many times do we expect from another person to be something that they’re not? How often are we dissatisfied because of things that we have not been able to get or achieve? How often does life pass us by, while we are upset because we’d like for things to be different?

It’s not about losing hope or settling for less than our dreams. Comfort and gratitude are good states unless they prevent you from reaching your full potential. It’s about acceptance. It’s about understanding that we don’t have control over everything; we can’t live our lives trying to change things or people into what we want them to be. Accepting is understanding that for now, this is the way things are. At least for now. At this moment in time.

Sometimes, the best you can do is do everything that you can and then simply wait. To accept does not mean that you have to change your plans (although you may want to) it means that you have to  contemplate them, evaluate them all while embracing the current state of things. 

To accept is to live in accordance with your own being. It’s about having the courage of living your own life, and not subordinating yourself to someone else’s plans. Often, the fear of being “excluded” can lead to adapting our wishes, expectations or decisions to those expectations from who we want a (false) acceptance.

To accept is a commitment to ourselves; to be honest about the way WE feel and think.

The theory of acceptance invites us to live our lives now, without travelling to the past or the future, so that we don’t lose focus. To accept is to be in touch with reality, with the present time, with what is happening here and now.

It’s liberating to think that once we stop being a fighting force and let things flow more naturally with what we have, we will breathe and feel a certain clarity and joy, not leave everything to the whims of uncertain times. After the rain, the sun always shines. If it’s raining today, try walking in the rain.

I leave you with a gift, below these lines: 



“Go to the Limits of Your Longing”



“God speaks to each of us as he makes us,

then walks with us silently out of the night.

 

These are the words we dimly hear:

 

You, sent out beyond your recall,

go to the limits of your longing.

Embody me.

 

Flare up like a flame

and make big shadows I can move in.

 

Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror.

Just keep going. No feeling is final.

Don’t let yourself lose me.

 

Nearby is the country they call life.

You will know it by its seriousness.

 

Give me your hand.”


RILKE






Sources:
Extract from an article I read yesterday.
LNR
This article is written by Jose Antonio García Higuera, a psychologist from Spain.
Translation: Michelle Cameron
Photo courtesy: Vogue UK

Poem: RILKE

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Thirty Something



















You know that song "Paradise" by Coldplay? there is a part that says: "life goes on, it gets so heavy..."

After thirty, people start to have issues. Not that we don't have them before but when we're twenty, for example, who cares if we screw up? I mean isn't that what young people do? At thirty, however, it's a different story and we become more demanding of ourselves. We expect something more from our lives.

Deep conversations with people in their thirties, friends mostly, have led me to realise the diversity of needs and wishes that people have:

- Some are looking for a partner.

- Some people want to quit their jobs and get a ticket to go see the world.

- Some are looking for a job (or a better job)

- Some are looking for a new apartment or house.

- Some want a husband who is more connected to the family.

- Some people want to make more money.

- Others want a divorce.

- Some people want kids.

- Some people want to fall in love with their partner all over again.

- Some men want their wives to work or study or just do something different than spend all day with the kids.

- Some want to have sex with their wives again.

- Some people don't know what they want.


Those are just some examples, but the important thing, I think, is to not feel alone in whatever your "search" is. Just remember that there are many people in their thirties with issues just like you. Remember also, that there is a direct link between how we see the world, the actions we take and the results we get.

Once we understand this, we are free to make the change or changes that will bring us closer to our truest wishes and needs.

Saturday, February 4, 2012

"dusa"

















It's always good to ask ourselves questions, no? here are some good ones.


Do you live well?
Do you love deeply?
Are you helpful?

and Three more:

Who are you?
What would you like to do with the rest of your life?
How will you do it?

Knowing ourselves is key in order to define what we want and how to accomplish it.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Plato's cavern


















I'm reading Laurent Gounelle's "I Will Not Leave Without Telling You Where I go" and have come across a few passages that deal with something that we sometimes resist: change. The translation is mine because the version I'm reading is in Spanish.

"Today a lot of people live in Plato's Cavern without even realizing it. They are afraid of what is unknown to them and reject any sort of change that affects them personally. They have ideas, projects, dreams but they do not fulfill them because they are often paralyzed by fear. Their feet and hands are held by handcuffs to which they only have the key to unlock. Keys hang in their neck but they never take them.

Life itself is made up of continuous change. It would not make any sense to hang on to the status quo. Only the dead remain still. We not only have to accept change, we also have to start it in order to be able to evolve in the sense that is most convenient to us.

[...] Resistance to change is what makes adults and children differ. Children feel like evolving while adults often do everything they can not to. (perhaps not at a conscious level)
When we no longer feel like evolving, we start to die very slowly...

[...] If you want to be young all your life, continue evolving, learning, discovering, don't lock yourself up in habit that makes your mind get stuck nor in the comfort of what is already known to you because before you know it you could become numb."

Plato's Allegory of the Cave remains a powerful metaphor for understanding the limitations of human perception and the transformative journey towards true knowledge and enlightenment. 

Remember that destiny is also an excuse for not making things happen. You create.


Monday, October 5, 2009

Into the Jungle


















Remember that the average life is about 600.000 hours. Are you able to escape from your duties to enjoy some of these hours, like you deserve? Here's a beautiful place to consider. Loi Suites Iguazú. The new, luxury hotel located inside 600 virgin hectares of the Iryapú jungle in Misiones provides the perfect base for exploring both the Argentinean and the Brasilian side of the Iguazú falls.

Large suites connected by bridges and floor-to-ceiling, glass windows provide an intimate connection with the natural surroundings. A Namasthé spa built around ancient rocks, is the ideal place for some serious pampering after a day of explorations and activities in the area. The hotel has a pier in the Iguazú river, perfect for those who (like me!), enjoy kayaking.

The design is austere and beautiful, using materials from the area, warm, earthy colors, and exquisite furniture brought from Indonesia.

There is a pool side restaurant surrounded by whispering trees, great for dining al fresco and afternoon cocktails.

Last and most importantly, the service is great, one of those places where people greet you by your name, and go to great lengths to make sure you feel at home.
A magical place for adventure and relaxation.

Details:
Loi Suites is located 15 minutes away from the falls, 20 minutes away from the airport and just 5 minutes away from Puerto iguazú. Thanks Loi Suites! for everything.