We recently found a copy of the Tao Te Ching by Lao Tsu. Have you read it? if you haven't, we recommend it. The book was a gift from Michelle's father. In the dedication, he noted that, as a boy, he had the chance to be in a lecture by a famous physicist at the university. He was 16 then. Her father asked the physicist what book would he recommend if he could only choose one. To which the physicist replied: the Tao.
It is, in our opinion a difficult book to understand, at first. Perhaps, a good idea is to read it a couple of times. We value the teachings of the Tao because of how different they are to Western values. We were taught, for example, that when we feel that change is necessary, it can be achieved through effort and perseverance. Contrary to this thought and more aligned with the theory of
Acceptance, the Tao, says that we should accept what is in front of us without wanting the situation to be other than it is.
We should study the natural order of things and work with it rather than against it, for to try and change what is, only sets up resistance. It teaches us that nature provides everything without requiring payment or thanks. The idea behind the Tao is to let yourself flow as freely as possible.
Whatever you're trying to accomplish, it will happen more naturally if you stop looking for results and value the "trip", walk that path.
If your mind is calm you will come to "understand" which means "to stand under". Te - which may be translated as "virtue" or "strength" lies always in Tao, or "natural law" in other words: Simply be.
To Westerners who may disagree, or are not willing to accept a different perspective, this may just be a "Chineese tale*"!
But, a good one to think about.
*Chineese tale is the translation for "Cuento Chino" an Argentinian Film with Buenos Aires- born actor,
Ricardo Darín
